Feminists Furious at Slate’s “Don’t Get Drunk” Advice to College Women
Never let it be said that outraged campus feminists confuse themselves with common sense.
Proving the point, Washington Post editorial writer Ruth Marcus reviews the fury at Slate’s recently published advice column to young women from Emily Yoffe about binge drinking (hat-tip, Instapundit).
The message of Emily Yoffe’s Slate article about binge drinking and sexual assault on college campuses was as important as it was obvious: The best step that young women can take to protect themselves is to stop drinking to excess.
Young women everywhere — not to mention their mothers — ought to be thanking Yoffe. Instead, she’s being pilloried.
A “rape denialism manifesto” full of “plain old victim-blaming,” Lori Adelman wrote on the feminist blog Feministing.com. Erin Gloria Ryan, on Jezebel.com, accused Yoffe of “admonishing women for not doing enough to stop their own rapes.”
Argued Yoffe’s Slate colleague Amanda Hess, “We can prevent the most rapes on campus by putting our efforts toward finding and punishing those perpetrators, not by warning their huge number of potential victims to skip out on parties.”
Excuse me, but no one’s suggesting that our daughters should be holed up in the library studying every night, forswearing any semblance of a social life. Yoffe (disclosure: she’s a close friend) is saying that the responsible advice is the one that I’ve been trying to impart for years to my now-teenage daughters: When you drink (because, let’s be serious, they’re not waiting until 21), don’t drink too much.
Consider the female Naval Academy midshipman who started with seven shots of coconut rum and woke up in an off-campus “football house” wondering what had happened. (Answer: Sexual encounters with three midshipmen, two of whom are being court-martialed.)
None of this — none of it — excuses men, sober or drunk, who prey on women, sober or drunk, to have sex without giving consent. Men who behave that way ought to be punished. Parents should warn their sons: Not only does “no mean no,” being too incapacitated to say “yes” also mean “no.”
But it is important to underscore two points here.
The first concerns the disturbing culture of binge drinking on college campuses. This phenomenon is, at least in part, an unfortunate and perhaps inevitable artifact of raising the drinking age to 21. That has had the perverse consequence of transforming alcohol from a no-big-deal substance that was readily attainable into the bizarre focus of social planning….
The second point is the regime of feminist political correctness that chills discussion.
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It would be a treat though if wymyn were held to the same standard as men with regards to drinking and sex. Woman has drink: HANDS OFF! Doesn’t matter whether she says yes. A man that had the same amount to drink on the other hand and takes the yes to mean yes will go to prison for rape. Equality? No such luck.
Teaching young women to stay safe is nothing more than making rape harder to commit. It is not “blaming the victim”.
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In a society which loses its way, its sense of direction, its sense of purpose and devolves into a Hobbesian state of nature where “…the life of man[ is] solitary, poor, nasty, brutish, and short…” it behooves Woman to do what is necessary to protect herself from the forces which conspire to do her ill, especially at those times when society, itself, seems to conspire against her.
If that means taking more responsibility for her own actions and abstaining from the use of alcohol or moderating her use of it, so be it. If that means making sure her “rape whistle” bears the Glock or Smith & Wesson trademark, so be it. If it means standing against the onslaught of “revolutionaries” who conspire to deny her her God-given rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness in the fullest possible measure, so be it.
Two of the tools that the Almighty and Living God has given Woman are the abilities to think and act for herself. He truly depends on her to use these tools well and wisely. Once she has done that, it is up to society to deal with the aftermath and punish those who broke the law in attempting to impinge on Woman’s rights.
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